"Et tu Brute, then fall Cesar." Perhaps the most famous words in English Literature speak of betrayal of a friend. Julius Cesar is saying that even his own friend is stabbing him in the back, then he has no hope. Our friends are the ones that we except to stand by us through thick and thin, when we are going through hard times and we ask that they be like a bridge over troubled waters. Someone who betrays, or stabs you in the back, is called untrustworthy.
If you make a promise to someone and go against your word, that is what you call betrayal. When after being betrayed its hard to trust again. True friends are hard to find. Trust is a hard thing to just give someone, and it's even harder to handle when someone breaks that trust. Most of the time people land up with wrong people that are hard to adjust with. Keeping up with a broken friendship is quite hard, especially if it was not your fault. But, life goes on you make new friends. You push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it. When friends let you down and are not there for you when you need them the most, its very heart wrenching. Sometimes the reason why friends betray you is just not known, which leaves you the feeling of guilt that maybe something went wrong from your side. You demand answers of why you have been betrayed for no fault of yours.
Hate it as much as you want, you will eventually have to reach the point of reality and accept that things were not meant to be. If someone ever asked me, "If we cannot rely on our friends to lend us a helping hand, then who can we rely on?" I would respond to that in one simple world, Ourselves. "Don't ask of your friends what you yourself can do" (Quintus Ennius). I've learned from experience that we can not depend on anyone but ourselves because when we do depend on others there is always a let down. When you hear the saying of "You can't trust no one," it is 100% true. There is not one person out there that knows you better then yourself. Not even your own parents. They don't always tell you the truth. And for some of us they're not always there for you, but its okay because I have myself, and that is all I need. For right now I have gave my trust to one other person besides myself. I can't tell you why but i trust this person to the fullest. Her name is Rehanna and she is my best friend, more like a sister. For the two years I've known her she has always been there for me no matter what. She is amazing and i love her so much. When you do find those couple people you can trust its the best feeling ever.
If you make a promise to someone and go against your word, that is what you call betrayal. When after being betrayed its hard to trust again. True friends are hard to find. Trust is a hard thing to just give someone, and it's even harder to handle when someone breaks that trust. Most of the time people land up with wrong people that are hard to adjust with. Keeping up with a broken friendship is quite hard, especially if it was not your fault. But, life goes on you make new friends. You push away your hurtful past and learn a valuable lesson from it. When friends let you down and are not there for you when you need them the most, its very heart wrenching. Sometimes the reason why friends betray you is just not known, which leaves you the feeling of guilt that maybe something went wrong from your side. You demand answers of why you have been betrayed for no fault of yours.
Hate it as much as you want, you will eventually have to reach the point of reality and accept that things were not meant to be. If someone ever asked me, "If we cannot rely on our friends to lend us a helping hand, then who can we rely on?" I would respond to that in one simple world, Ourselves. "Don't ask of your friends what you yourself can do" (Quintus Ennius). I've learned from experience that we can not depend on anyone but ourselves because when we do depend on others there is always a let down. When you hear the saying of "You can't trust no one," it is 100% true. There is not one person out there that knows you better then yourself. Not even your own parents. They don't always tell you the truth. And for some of us they're not always there for you, but its okay because I have myself, and that is all I need. For right now I have gave my trust to one other person besides myself. I can't tell you why but i trust this person to the fullest. Her name is Rehanna and she is my best friend, more like a sister. For the two years I've known her she has always been there for me no matter what. She is amazing and i love her so much. When you do find those couple people you can trust its the best feeling ever.





